"Oh yes, bonding is the heart of owning your dog."


If you know me then you know everything I do at Super Dooper Dog Training is about relationship. Bond. Love. Trust. Friendship. Guidance. Calm-Cool-Quiet-Confident Pack Leadership.

Last week, I was sitting by the fire on a snowy afternoon here in Park City and out of curiosity; I grabbed this old book that’s been on our bookshelf for years. It’s so old that it’s probably out of print by now, though I hope not. It’s called, The Ultimate Guide to Dog Training, by Matthew “Uncle Matty” Margolis, published in 1997.

Remember “Uncle Matty”? In the ‘90s, he had his own dog training TV series, filmed out in California where he was known as the Trainer to the Hollywood Stars. Sound familiar? I wasn’t even a dog trainer back then, I was still in the car business, but I loved watching his shows. Maybe, he was one of the sparks to becoming the dog trainer I am today.

Uncle Matty was a true Maverick. In this book, he devotes a whole chapter on the subject of Friendship. Listen gang, back in 1997, hardly anyone was using terms like friendship and trust and bonding… 

Enjoy reading his opening lines in this chapter…

I’m always asked what the most important part of owning a dog is. And those who ask always add to the question, “It is dog training, isn’t it?”

I always answer by saying that training is not the most important thing. Bonding is more important. Oh yes, bonding is the heart of owning your dog.

My word is my bond. Actually my dog is my bond. If you like, you can refer to me as a bond salesman.

I can play these word games all day because the subject is as important as it is enjoyable.

To bond with your dog is to create a relationship with him based on the friendship, love, caring and trust that make living with a dog so incredible. 

I have bonded with every dog I have ever trained since I learned of the concept

I believe bonding with your dog is the most important thing you can do, especially as a preparation for obedience training.
 If you bond with your dog, you will have the best relationship possible and training will be as much fun as it is successful.

A dog is going to be your responsibility, like a child, for the next fifteen or so years, and what you do now is going to decide what kind of dog you’re going to have for the rest of your lives together. Everything you do to create the bond is crucial.

Thank you Uncle Matty… well said. No wonder I kept this book!

Join Dooper and Me on a Therapy Visit

Enjoy joining my English Setter named Dooper and me on one of our visits to the local hospital so you can see what a Therapy Dog visit looks like. Dooper loves doing his visits as much as people love seeing him. My dream is to have an army of Therapy Dogs out their spreading their love and joy in hospitals, churches, libraries, senior centers and many more places all across the land.

Put a Smile on Your Dog's Face


“Search for what naturally makes your dog smile.” Wise advice from one of my heroes, Sue Sternberg, an expert in the field of shelter dogs and their temperaments. Personally, it gets to the heart of how we should train and live with our dogs. It’s one of the reasons why we try to make classes fun and active. Dogs tend to trust and respect, listen and behave better for owners who make them smile.

All dogs are different and have different likes. Our job is to find what naturally makes them happy. My parents’ Yorkie, Regis, loves to search in flowers for lizards. It’s his natural instinct in action. Our dog, Dooper, a Llewellin English Setter, loves to run and set on birds in open field since he’s a bird dog. When he was younger he loved fetch and do agility.

One of my graduates, Sallie and her dog Gunter, a handsome German Shepherd Dog, absolutely loved to sniff the ground for all types of things. I recommended she do Nose-Work classes with him. She did and he loves it. She and I found something that used his natural interest. Dooley, Charlene’s (another student) Doodle, loves to cuddle with people and has become a wonderful therapy dog for TDI. Again, she pursued what makes him happy. The Mitchell family came for obedience classes and discovered when we started agility that their Cavalier, Colin, thrived on it. Based on our equipment, they built their own stuff and years later still have fun doing agility with him in their own backyard.

We love when we discover what naturally “lights up” a dog. Activities like agility are transforming how we train. It creates a dog that wants to learn, wants to listen and wants to be with his owners. That’s why we teach it in all classes, even puppy class. Of course, we use low level equipment, tunnels and ramps since their bones and muscles are still in development.

Agility is something you do with your dog so it helps build your relationship with him. You and he play together–that’s what we want. It’s easy to learn. Any size dog can do it because we can raise or lower equipment to match their size. Small dogs love it just as much as the big guys, as do mixed and pure breeds of all types. Any person can do it. In fact, some of the best handlers are kids.

Agility teaches good manners commands because your dog will need to sit, stay, down, go-to-your-place, come and walk/run along side with you. As trainers, it gives us exciting ways to teach these sometimes boring but necessary obedience skills.

Agility is a socially good time for you and your dog with other agility enthusiasts. It far beats a dog park in my opinion. It’s so much safer and again your dog is spending quality time playing with you. Or like Colin’s family, you can make your own stuff for your backyard. Pretty much anyone can do agility: young and old, fit or out-of-shape. You go at your own speed and pace.

Agility can transform personalities. A timid shy dog builds confidence when he finally braves a ramp or tunnel that’s scared him earlier. The hyper overly-energetic dog learns to be calm and focus as he listens for instructions from his owner while running a course.

Agility helps build your leadership as your dog learns to listen and look for your directions. In a way, you are the key to the door that opens a world of fun running and jumping, leaping and tunneling.

Agility is just one possible option. The important message here is to find what your dog naturally loves to do and it will put a smile on your face, too.


What's My Favorite Head Halter/Headcollar?


There’s great news in the world of training equipment; things are changing for the better. What we commonly used a decade ago like “choke chains” are a thing of the past. New technology gives us new choices; now we reach for effective and friendlier products. The choices are vast.

One of the options for equipment is commonly called a head halter or headcollar, I normally call them the former because it really functions just like a head halter for horses but they are made for dogs. There are different styles and bands but their job is the same- to gently control the dog. Myself and many veterinarians and fellow trainers and behaviorist like these as alternatives to collars that go around the neck. Here are some pluses to why we like head halters.


  • Discourages pulling on a leash
  • Never causes choking, gagging or coughing
  • Helps prevent jumping and lunging
  • Helps manage behavior problems such as fear, anxiety and aggression
  • Helps control excessive barking
  • Give extra control (i.e., vet’s office, busy streets)
  • Use to help walk pups as young as 8 weeks
Understand that a head halter is NOT a muzzle. A head halter allows a dog to eat, drink, walk, run, play fetch and yes, even bite. On the other hand, a muzzle is a protective device which covers the mouth so the dog can’t bite. There is a clear difference between a muzzle and a head halter. 

I carry two brands of head halters in my studio: the Gentle Leader Head Halter and the Halti headcollar. I like them equally. I think either brand works really well on most dogs. The Gentle Leader head halter is by Premier Pet Products and is made in America. It comes in two styles; the original and the Deluxe. The Deluxe can be hard to find as its usually only sold by trainers and behaviorist and online. The differences in the two are that the Deluxe has a soft felt cushion on the nose which makes it a little more comfortable than the original. It also comes in cute patterns and offers a matching leash. I carry and use both styles. 

The Halti headcollar brand is made in England by The Company of Animals, LTD. The company prides it product by advertising that, “The Halti has become the world’s favourite canine headcollar because it has been designed to combine maximum steering efficiency with unequalled comfort for the dog.” 

You can find both brands online or in some stores but in my opinion; having a trainer like me helps when learning how to fit and use these products properly. Its really important that your dog feels comfortable and confident in his Halti or Gentle Leader. 

Thanks to TryNot Productions, we have a great educational video for you to watch at our website on the Gentle Leader. It gives a very good explanation and you see several different size dogs and their owners telling about how much they like the product. Go watch it, its short and well done.

What's my favorite harness?


There’s great news in the world of training equipment; things are changing for the better. What we commonly used a decade ago like “choke chains” are a thing of the past. New research gives us new discovery, insight and new technology which ultimately gives us new choices; now we reach for effective and friendlier products. The choices are vast.

Luckily, new harnesses are on the market and I love them! My favorite is the No-Pull Freedom Harness by Wiggles, Wags and Whiskers. Dooper’s been wearing one for over a year and I am totally sold on it. I’m not the only one who really likes this harness. It’s selected as one of the best recently in Whole Dog Journal, a bi-monthly periodical that I really respect. They are a little bit more expensive than others but I think they are definitely worth the few dollars more. I sell them to my clients at the Dooper Market at my studio where I can fit and show how to use it properly, but you can get it online.

There are several reasons why I like this harness over others. First I think it’s a very simple harness to fit. If it’s simple for me to fit, then it’s simple for my students, too. This is important because in class, I don’t want to waste time. It comes in different sizes and strap thickness. And, I know my students can easily remember how to put it on because it’s so simple.

Another reason, it’s a comfortable harness for the dogs. The belly strap is a soft, high quality felt strap so there’s rarely any chaffing. Other harnesses aren’t as soft and can cause rubbing and hair loss. The other straps of fabric, though they aren’t made of felt are soft yet strong. It’s incredibly durable as well. Dooper wears his all day long; on walks, during agility, therapy dog visits as well as running in the fields and swimming. To clean it, I usually hand wash his but I’m sure it will do fine in the washing machine I’ve just never have tried it.

Fashion wise, they are great looking on the dogs. They offer many choices and all are two-colored; the martingale loops are a different color than the main straps so it makes it easier to remember how to put it on your dog. I seem to stay with the unisex colors like neon green/kelly green, orange/black, black/silver, red/blacks, navy blue/light blue but they have more feminine and masculine colors available.

Most importantly, it’s effective and offers a unique feature of having two places where a leash can hook to it. There are two rings attached to martingale loops; one is on the chest and the other is on the back. Dooper does great with the leash hooked to the back ring; whereas other dogs do much better with the leash hooked to the chest ring. The beauty of the two rings is you can hook your leash to the back ring or the chest ring or both rings. You can buy their custom leash that has two bolt snaps; one at each end. I make my own using a carabiner.

The final reason I like this harness is because for many therapy groups, it’s an approved harness. This is so important for my therapy dog clients because we can practice in the actual equipment they will wear during their therapy dog certification test. It’s the harness that Dooper wears during our weekly therapy dog visits. The only down side is that even though they make an X-Small size, it isn’t small enough for some of the smaller dogs like yorkies, shih tzus, and the like. For those smaller guys and gals, I have to find an alternative. That’s my only complaint.

I give the No-Pull Freedom Harness by Wiggles, Wags and Whiskers an A+.